In response to a reader's query, Eric asks for guidance regarding his brother's decision not to include their late father's partner in the upcoming memorial service. The context provided indicates that the deceased father was married to someone other than his wife when he passed away [1]. This situation has led to differing opinions within the family about how to proceed with honoring both parents' wishes. [2] suggests a similar scenario where a daughter is seeking advice on whether her brother should exclude their late stepfather's partner from the memorial service. The article mentions that both parents had chosen not to have any services, obituaries, or celebrations of life for themselves [2]. Both sources highlight the complex decisions families face when planning funeral services and honoring deceased loved ones who may have remarried after marriage.